

WHEN THE BROTHER MOVED ON
23 May 1986-10 November 2013 I stopped breathing the day I heard. That Nkulukelo Mthembu was no longer with us. It was simply not...


DONE: MUSIC KEEPS MY HAIR
I am listening to The Black Saint and the Sinner Lady by American Jazz double bassist, composer and bandleader Charles Mingus. This album...


MOROCCO: A DESTINATION FOR HAPPY ENDINGS
The term ‘happy-ending” is ambiguous at best. Depending on who you are, where you are from and your perspective in life a happy ending...


MY CUP OF TEA: VANILLA CHAI
My Dearest Mam’Khulu… [ Zulu phrase/noun. Mam’khulu: Mama omKhulu (mama-mother) Omkhulu (Big, older, eldest, grand) colloquial...


THE DAY YOU "JUST KNOW": ADVISE FROM MY FATHER
Wedding season is fast approaching for those in the Northern Hemisphere and since my head is often in the clouds I have been thinking...


LOVE ACROSS THE BORDER: CAN YOU AFFORD TO FALL IN LOVE?
If food is the way to a man’s heart, 33-year-old *Thembi Nkosi seemed to have the exact Global Positioning System (GPS) co-ordinates to...


Latvia, Your Flag Is on My lips; Congratulations!
Latvia is a country, right? Imagine if I had to pitch an advertising campaign congratulating Latvia on the successful conclusion of its...


ERROR: Mind Your Language(s) - Nkandla is Beautiful!
For two days last week I reported from the front-lines of what many in the media call Nkandla-Gate. But in reality I have been standing...


THIS IS ME: A FAMILY HAIR TRADITION.
This is Me; Between my Aunt Masi’s legs. I have been nagging her all week, all day and all night to “please, please plait my hair” . She...


MARIE CLAIRE: #StayInHerShoes
In my 20’s I was a vociferous advocate for women’s rights. I let it be known to any man who dared challenge a womans' right to equal...